Family Separation is hard for everyone. Family Mediation is a way out.
The disillusionment of separation is often the piece that makes it one of the most difficult transitions you will experience in your lifetime.
If you’ve separated from your spouse, you’re likely feeling a lot of uncertainty about your future. Your unanswered questions have answers, and we will find many during the process, paving the way for you to move forward.
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During separation it’s hard to see what the future looks like.
When you make the first call, you may not know what your first step should be, or perhaps you just want the mediation to be over with as quickly as possible.
Be reassured that during our first call I will recognize what's most important to you. I may offer advice on how to resolve one of your pressing concerns, or make suggestions on the best starting point for the process.
The collaboration that will get you through starts here.
Meet Richard
Accredited Family Mediator | Coparenting and Relationship Coach
During the past 7 years, as a mediator and coach, I have helped many clients see through impasse by turning uncertainty into self-confidence.
I will take the time to discover what you care about by using an approach called insight mediation. This way I can help you recognize and formulate your needs in a collaborative context and enable you and your spouse to participate in 'learning conversations' during the process. These types of conversations have been shown to create the atmosphere where considered and present long term planning can be made.
My goal is that our work together will help you (re)define your future, and that you and your co-parent leave feeling clear, energized, and ready to handle life's challenges.
The Aligned Choices Family Mediation Process
Step One -
Individual Sessions
First, I will meet with you privately. I will ask questions, as well as answer any you have. Telling me what you're seeking and why will allow me to better focus on finding workable solutions ahead of the joint sessions.
Step Two -
Joint Sessions
We will then all meet in the first joint mediation session. I will lead the discussions and balance the needs for freedom of expression and for providing a safe space. I will bring up each topic, respond to each party's concerns in a manner that encourages curiosity, and guide the conversation toward lasting resolutions.
Step Three -
Agreement Drafting
We will continue with the joint meetings until all subjects in need of attention are covered. Afterwards, I will write up a list of all the points of agreement and give you both a copy or send it to your family lawyer.
Agreement Signing
Step Four -
I recommend that you speak to a family lawyer and receive advice as we go through these steps together. If you did not consult one before the negotiations, you still have a chance to do so before you sign a legally binding separation agreement.
Move Forward
Step Five -
At this stage you will have the framework for your co-parenting responsibilities, including how you have agreed to communicate with one another, what needs to be discussed, and when. The agreement will need to be revised as your children grow up. Follow up calls and sessions within the first year are normal, and returning to mediation is always a good option.
Family Mediation
& Coaching Plans
All plan totals below indicates the minimum each party pays. During your free consultation I will confirm which plan will meet your needs.
Richard is a calm and empathetic mediator. He is truly able to see many perspectives and bring multiple sides closer in an efficient and respectful way. Highly recommend!
- Ryan D.
Richard Brydson’s mediation skills are second to none. His understanding and empathy were immensely reassuring. I highly recommend him.
- Mike M.
Richard is a good listener. He's also thoughtful, insightful, level-headed, warm, fair, and compassionate - all qualities useful in tending to people in times of difficulty.
The bonus is his sense of humor. Richard can see the lighter side of most situations, even tough ones, and that's a gift.
- Robin H.
Let’s Talk
During your free consultation, we will discuss what's most important to you, explore options and potential solutions. By the end of the call I will make sure that my services are appropriate for you and make a proposal to meet your needs. Call or book a consultation today to discover how the Aligned Choices Mediation approach can help.